Sex, Lies and Dating in the City

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Real stories about dating, relationships and sex in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

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  • There's Always More to the Story on Sep 7, 2009 in blog Sex lies next day email second date

    On Tuesday, I wrote about my cancelled date with Mr. Nicepost and the way I felt about it (stressed, distrustful, ashamed at my own lack of trust).  I tried to be as open and honest with you as I could be about my feelings, while at the same time le...

  • 5 Things I Learned from Dating a Drag Queen on Sep 6, 2009 in Drag Queen nandoism

    This week's Guy's Story is from my friend Nando (you should check out his blog, Nandoism).  It's a bit more advice-y that most of our Sunday stories, but that's Nando's thing, and people can't be anything other than who they are.  Plus, it's funny...

  • 3 Guys Online: A Study on Sep 5, 2009 in online dating online dating profile opening line

    Like so many other people in the US, I'm "away" this weekend.  So no dates for me (and no, I don't have anything scheduled with Mr. Nicepost for next week and yes, this makes me a little anxious). I'm still an active online dater.  Here's a story o...

  • 7 Ways to Let a Guy Down Easy on Sep 4, 2009 in apologies nice guys list post unsexy

    He likes you*.  Really, really likes you.  You can't ignore it any longer. Lucky you. He's such a nice guy, he is.  He's just not, um, attractive. And this isn't a case of all nice guys being unattractive (that's so another post). No. It's him. ...

  • Let Me Buy You a Drink on Sep 3, 2009 in bars drunk

    The other night I was out with a couple of friends, Lostplum and Alejandra (anyone who follows any of us on Twitter already knows all about it).  It was a girl's night out in the classic sense.  We went to an easygoing local bar with too-strong dri...

  • Crashing the Cougar Convention on Sep 3, 2009 in cougars doublex

    I found this on doubleX last night and had to watch it twice before I could figure out if what I was watching was real or satire (yeah, I can be pretty slow sometimes). There are so many things I can say about this.  SO MANY.  But I'm going to choo...

  • Don't Shit Where You Eat (?) on Sep 2, 2009 in poll Yourtango workplace romances

    Work and dating - I've always been of the opinion that they don't mix, but then, I've never really been in  a situation where I wanted to date anyone I worked with.  The few times I've had guys I worked with ask me out, I politely turned them down...